tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7960710741672105827.comments2011-02-23T10:25:44.664-05:00Dave Jerrido Male-Female Relationships Spin Blogdavejerridohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15173362329839927722noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7960710741672105827.post-21678336523912166702011-02-23T10:25:44.664-05:002011-02-23T10:25:44.664-05:00@get_over_your_ex: thanks for your comment. Check...@get_over_your_ex: thanks for your comment. Check out all my articles in this blog as well as my videos on YouTube. Please leave comments wherever you wish. Appreciate it!davejerridohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15173362329839927722noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7960710741672105827.post-24726887731145458132011-02-22T20:24:53.607-05:002011-02-22T20:24:53.607-05:00There is evidently a lot to realize about this. I ...There is evidently a lot to realize about this. I suppose you made some good points in features also.get over your exhttp://www.forgetex.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7960710741672105827.post-3296696155317477062010-09-27T19:37:10.430-04:002010-09-27T19:37:10.430-04:00Hmm...Halle Berry or the Lady next door? Does the ...Hmm...Halle Berry or the Lady next door? Does the lady next door have as many problems as Halle Berry? Beauty isn't everything so it depends on what you're willing to give up to get it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7960710741672105827.post-45566130919455245782010-09-27T19:30:35.853-04:002010-09-27T19:30:35.853-04:00Hmmm. Let's see..........Well, the grass may ...Hmmm. Let's see..........Well, the grass may not be greener on the other side, but it may be watered better!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7960710741672105827.post-59292565973729009912010-09-27T19:28:22.731-04:002010-09-27T19:28:22.731-04:00Sure. We can reconcile and be really good friends...Sure. We can reconcile and be really good friends. And one day, I'll have them both over for some "sweet potato pie".Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7960710741672105827.post-47303405110093689902010-09-27T19:27:17.351-04:002010-09-27T19:27:17.351-04:00She can have him!She can have him!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7960710741672105827.post-91919387046312718092010-07-17T20:59:24.489-04:002010-07-17T20:59:24.489-04:00This is so true. I am in a relationship right now ...This is so true. I am in a relationship right now and we have great sex but the intimacy is missing. There is no real conversation. I may get a text message every now and then or a phone call here and there but no real conversation. I like for my mind to be stimulated and made love to as well. I want some love letters, a picnic in the park, long walks holding hands, long embraces, and sweet whispers in my ear. Sometimes I find myself getting frustrated with the whole thing.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7960710741672105827.post-51698683057381287242009-11-02T09:49:55.226-05:002009-11-02T09:49:55.226-05:00A very interesting read, thanks for sharing. It...A very interesting read, thanks for sharing. It's true about the intimidation aspect of it.Why Men Leavehttp://www.howtofixrelationship.com/why-men-leave.htmlnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7960710741672105827.post-89924351758450084532009-09-25T09:46:45.755-04:002009-09-25T09:46:45.755-04:00Hello Inspire:
I totally agree with you that men ...Hello Inspire:<br /><br />I totally agree with you that men fall short in the area of emotional and intellectual compatibility; and unfortunately the trend appears to continue in that direction. The income issue is a matter of pride for the man - he wants to feel like he's taking care of his woman. Really, it's an "ego" thing. If you trounce on a man's ego, he really feels crushed. <br /><br />As for the lady next door, I do not feel that it is a "fantasy" to want and find a career-minded, confident, beautiful, smart, funny, upstanding woman with morals and values. The fantasy is probably finding the type of man who wants a woman like this.<br /><br />Thanks so much for your comment and participation! Look for a new article: "Liberal girlfriends, conservative wives". Coming soon!<br /><br />DaveAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7960710741672105827.post-2192467738847618492009-09-08T20:26:45.289-04:002009-09-08T20:26:45.289-04:00Dave, while you make some valid points, I find it ...Dave, while you make some valid points, I find it interesting that you refer to the women making more money, some of us are not what you would call professional women, but we are classy, handle our business and have investments, etc... retirement, etc... the issue I find with men is that they become intimidated when you are able to care for yourself and them. Not in the sense of being the breadwinner in the family; just in the fact that when they meet you, you are not needy. You needs financially are being met, where some men fall off is in the area of emotional and intellectual. They either want you to carry those areas of the relationship or they just are immature and unable to give women that necessary level of emotional, intellectual, and intimacy that is needed. I too have done my research and am still researching and I find it interesting at the lack or the ability or even willingness of men to get healthy especially black men.<br /><br />See they want us to come to the relationship whole, healthy with no baggage, but they seem to come with all of the above and then some. Sometimes they don't know or even want to be told that they have some issues that need to be addressed so that they can get healthy.<br /><br />As for the girl next door, that is a wonderful fantasy. As long as some men live in that fantasy world and try to hold beautiful, smart, funny, sincere women to a standard that even they can't attain it will always be an issue and a question. What do you think?<br /><br />InspireAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7960710741672105827.post-25070350148187333662009-07-24T12:14:11.731-04:002009-07-24T12:14:11.731-04:00This is not necessarily a case of the wife being a...This is not necessarily a case of the wife being at fault. If anything, he is at fault for taking the easy way out by creating a relationship with another woman without attempting to make amends with his spouse. When he got into the second relationship, the mistress decided to end it all before he could break up with her and go back to the wife.davejerridohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15173362329839927722noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7960710741672105827.post-84869170891012324542009-07-24T11:46:46.527-04:002009-07-24T11:46:46.527-04:00Why is it always the wife's fault at home for ...Why is it always the wife's fault at home for a man to cheat? That's such a lame excuse! He was just greedy!! Plain and simple and he wanted to probably control this younger woman and his greed and need for control backfired like it always does! End a relationship before starting a new one! That's food for thought....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7960710741672105827.post-25524809463087498432009-03-16T07:42:00.000-04:002009-03-16T07:42:00.000-04:00Maybe they are being silent because they don't wan...Maybe they are being silent because they don't want to say something they will regret later. Sometimes it is better to take a break and let things cool down before you share your feelings. As long as it is not viewed as the "silent treatment." Let your significant other know you want to talk about it later.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7960710741672105827.post-86784806754605127082009-03-13T14:53:00.000-04:002009-03-13T14:53:00.000-04:00I would definitely say that silence is a death kis...I would definitely say that silence is a death kiss in a relationship. When I stop talking it means I am done. Nothing left to say, your days are numbered. I have also used it as a passive agressive tactic to make my significant other even more angry.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7960710741672105827.post-41890225204807414512009-02-19T17:16:00.000-05:002009-02-19T17:16:00.000-05:00You move too much in your video post. Other than t...You move too much in your video post. Other than that good post. lol Why do you have so many female friends outside of your wife? If she laid down the law and said that was unacceptable would you heed? If she didn't lay down the law per se but expressed a deep sincere discomfort would you cut your female friends to make your wife happy? How would you feel if she had various male friends? She doesn't sound like the type that would out of respect but just say that she did how would that make you feel? Curious...StarApplehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04659089328488834135noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7960710741672105827.post-81090016329152205922009-02-07T20:20:00.000-05:002009-02-07T20:20:00.000-05:00Marquis, let's take out the "unattractive" and "se...Marquis, let's take out the "unattractive" and "seem to be not interested" pieces and focus on the actual question, "Why Do Men Shy Away From Professional Women?" I find it interesting that both of your reasons focuses on the outwardly appearance of the women. With these reasons out of the equation, where do we go to find the answer? I find it puzzling that so many professional women especially Black women find their relationship category box checked “SINGLE.” If we go with your listed responses - unattractive, uninterested, or some other simple reason, I would like to understand, why are so many available women are without mates? <BR/><BR/>I find myself in the professional woman category. I find myself either gaining the interest but not maintaining the interest or nothing at all. This phenomenon is somewhat disturbing because I have several single, professional, beautiful, talented, and sincere women and we can understand why we have this challenge. <BR/> <BR/>Please help us understand!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7960710741672105827.post-40131824755296824162009-01-30T13:55:00.000-05:002009-01-30T13:55:00.000-05:00Dave, you make some good points here, but, wheneve...Dave, you make some good points here, but, whenever I hear points like these made, I wonder if there's some over-thinking going on. What if guys just don't find the woman attractive or she carries herself in a way that make her appear to not be interested? Don't get me wrong...the reason you laid out apply for some men, but it can also be much simpler than that.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09112948453442892510noreply@blogger.com